Meeting new people can be awkward enough. Trying to work out whether someone might be a new friend, a fellow kick-curios human, a future play partner or the beginning of a delicious little crush…even more so. 

Kinky Connections is a warm, playful evening designed to make that bit easier. 

First and foremost, this is about meeting other people in the kink community. Come as you are, bring your curiosity and see who you connect with. 

Alice will guide you through the evening, starting together before moving into group activities designed to get conversation flowing without putting anyone too firmly in the spotlight. You’ll have the chance to talk kink, discover shared interests, explore curiosities and get to know people beyond the usual small talk. No kink encyclopedia required. The point isn’t to know everything. It’s to be curious, be yourself and meet other people doing the same. 

Then we’ll move into our speed rounds. You’ll meet people one-to-one, have a little time to chat, and decide whether the connection feels like **not for me, friend or maybe something more**. 

We’ll finish with time to mingle, reconnect with people you enjoyed meeting and let the evening carry on at a slightly more casual pace. 

**What to wear:**

Wear whatever makes you feel comfy, confident and like you. That might be something casual, bold and dramatic, a little flirty, or an outfit that lets your kinky side shine through. 

**A little note on matching:**

This is an inclusive event open to all genders, sexual orientations, relationship styles and levels of kink experience. We don’t sell tickets according to any ratios. You may discover three new friends. You may leave having met someone you fancy. You may find some to come with to the next SiTC event. All of those count. 

Any interest expressed during the evening is just that interest. A match never creates an expectation of contact, play, dating or anything else. Consent, boundaries and the freedom to change your mind continue well beyond the event.  

  


Kinky Speed Connections

Join Sarah and Master Carlos from Sub in the City for a monthly Dungeon Party in the Sub in the City Studio in Bournemouth.

**7.30pm- 12.30am.**

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This month we're going back to skool, so dig out your slutty tartan skirts, ties and headmaster canes as we're all getting detention at the SITC Studio! 

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We have a limited number of tickets for you to join our Dungeon Party where you can meet likeminded kinksters, socialise in our brand new Dungeon Studio, and explore some light kink play if you wish. Master Carlos will also be offering taster impact play sessions and Sarah will be around offering guidance and support to anyone who may want it.

Dungeon furniture and toys are available for you to use and you are also welcome to bring your own toys.

**What is a Dungeon Party?**

This event is not a sex party, therefore we do not allow sexual activities, however we do make this a safe space for kink play (think sensory/sensation play/role play dynamics etc).

**Who can attend?** 

Anyone who is interested in socialising with the local kink community is welcome to attend. It is a safe space for newbies and seasoned kinksters alike.

**What to expect?**

You will be welcomed into the space from 7.30pm with last entry at 8pm, and you’ll receive a welcome glass of fizz / soft drink and a tour/briefing on arrival.

The event is BYOB with a bar service, so our Dungeon Staff will label your drinks and serve you whenever you need a refill - simply go to the bar and request your drink! A small amount of soft drinks will be provided and snacks!

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Please familiarise yourself with the event rules prior to booking:

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🩷 Doors open at 7.30pm and close at 8pm, no earlier, no later. Please do not arrive early or late as you will be turned away.

🩷 You will receive a tour and dungeon briefing on arrival

🩷 Please be ready to state your name on the booking when arriving and do not let anyone who is not part of your booking pass into the venue.

🩷 We abide by PRICK at our events - Personal Responsibility in Consensual Kink

🩷 Please speak to Sarah, Master Carlos or any dungeon staff member identified with a pink LED armband should you need assistance with any equipment, housekeeping or to make a report.

🩷 Please drink responsibly

🩷 Drugs are not permitted

🩷 Please keep the venue location discreet to maintain the discretion of other guests and do not share the location of the event with non-ticket holders.

🩷 Do not loiter or smoke outside the venue in kinkwear, with drinks, or be loud/rowdy

🩷 If you need to go outside to smoke, please let one of our staff members know so they can keep an eye on the doorbell to let you back in.

🩷 Please be kind and mindful of language, touch, and interactions with other guests

🩷 Play is not a given or expected - respect other people's boundaries and Master Carlos when Hose Domming

🩷 Consent is key

🩷 Please stick to the designated areas in the dungeon and do not cross into the cloakroom or bar. If you need something, please ask a member of staff.

🩷 Please be mindful when others are playing and do not be too loud, get in the way, or interrupt a scene.

🩷 The aftercare room is for aftercare or quiet time only. Please do not use this space to socialise.

🩷 Please do not loiter in the stairwell

🩷 Please wipe down equipment and toys after use with the antibac provided.

🩷 Please be quiet when leaving the premises at the end of the night.

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Consent is key, creepiness will not be tolerated. This is a safe space for newbies and seasoned kinksters alike to come together and mingle with the local community.

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Spots are limited.

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If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to contact me at [sarah.subinthecity@gmail.com](mailto:sarah.subinthecity@gmail.com)

August Dungeon Party 

Pheonix 

Sub in the city has fast become an amazing space for us to enjoy. Sarah and Carlos are incredibly welcoming and the perfect hosts. They always ensure everyone is comfortable and enjoying themselves and like to mingle and socialise with all there. The space is very well tailored for a wealth of variety to explore and enjoy. We cant recommened their events enough and the fun and educational resources they provide. We will definitely be back for more.

Join Sarah and Master Carlos from Sub in the City for a monthly Dungeon Party in the Sub in the City Studio in Bournemouth. This time the theme is Back 2 Skool! 

**7.30pm- 12.30am**

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Back to Skool Dungeon Party 

Please provide a social media profile/Fetlife/WAX for vetting purposes

I have read the event rules and understand that failure to adhere to these rules will result in being asked to leave the event without refund.

**Sunday 9th August @ 3pm-5.30pm Bournemouth, BH1**

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**Kink and Sketch: Kinky Life Drawing**

Join us for an afternoon of arts and kink in this brand new life drawing workshop.

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Kink and Sketch is our inaugural artistic workshop, where we explore the sensuality of the human body through an artistic lens. In this intimate life drawing session, we will share some basic illustration techniques that will allow you to capture the enticing poses of our life models, and maybe open the doors for your own personal collection of kinky art!

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Be you a seasoned artist wanting to share ideas and stretch your life drawing skills, or a beginner wanting to dip your toes into a new world of creativity, or simply just want to have a bit of artsy fun, we would love to see you there.

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Join us and learn with our guest facilitator [@ChaoticHarmony89](https://fetlife.com/ChaoticHarmony89) how you too can make those memorable moments into provoking pieces of art.

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All materials needed will be provided but you are welcome to bring your own materials also. No experience necessary.

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**MODELS WANTED**

In this session, we’ll be working our resident rope slut [Talulah Teal](https://fetlife.com/Talulah_Teal) as our muse, but we’re also opening up spots for models who would like to express their kinky self for our audience this month!

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We’re welcoming all genders, body shapes and sizes and we’re encouraging you to come along with some kinky accessories that express your authentic kinky self. Full nudity is not required, but is very much welcomed - it is a life drawing class after all! We also have a variety of props you’re welcome to use as our house models for the afternoon. No experience necessary. 

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Models are required to meet at the venue at 2pm (1 hour before the class begins)

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Model tickets are £5 and includes drinks and snacks on the day.

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We are currently opening just 3 model slots per session. First come, first served. 

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Please email [sarah.subinthecity@gmail.com](mailto:sarah.subinthecity@gmail.com) to apply

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**About @ChaoticHarmony89**

*I’m a self-taught artist who has studied concept art and illustration for over 25 years. I worked with small indie developers, South American game and animation studios, tattoo artists, and self-publishing authors.*

*My main focus is on fantasy art with a scientific/realistic approach, but I also love playing around with a more underground comic book style.*

*I work mainly with pencil, ink and paper, but I have experience with most of the traditional materials, as well as most of the industry standard illustration software.*

**This workshop will take place in the Sub in the City Studio in Bournemouth, BH1. Full address confirmed upon booking.**

Sub in the City  - Kink & Sketch: Kinky Life Drawing Class

Kink & Sketch: Kinky Life Drawing Class

Ruth Barnett

My first Sub in the City event, and it was so fun. Sarah and Chaotic Harmony (soz can't remember their name) were so welcoming and friendly. The models were so talented and professional and overall really comfortable lovely vibes. Will deffo come to another one.

stuart smith

Ah what a fab event. I found myself in Bournemouth for a few days, wanted to try something new, so signed up for this event.

So glad I did, fab hosts and models, very friendly and welcoming, will definitely attend again. 

Join Sub in the City as we summon some of the kinkiest spirits for a night you’ll never forget

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**The Séance** 

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Join Sub in the City for an epic Halloween Party in collaboration with Ouija Escape Experiences, and step into *The Séance*, an immersive multi-floor and multi-room experience for those who are brave enough to step across the threshold and dance in the shadows with the spirits of the kink world. 

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For one night only, we’re inviting curious kinksters into an elaborate Halloween Celebration like no other. It’s time to summon your kinkiest self and celebrate your dark side as you explore a variety of rooms to discover the adventures of the spirit realm.   

Expect horror-themed rooms with experiential and kinky “happenings” throughout the night including:

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- **Dungeon open all night** 
- **Mummification Station with Master Carlos** 
- **Rope Jam Space** 
- **Trick or Treat offerings from our wandering spirits** 
- **Tarot Readings** 
- **Hall of Sins Kinky Confession Wall** 
- **Selfie corner**

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**Drinks** 

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Our wandering spirits will be around serving bubbles on arrival, and we will operate our usual BYOB with a bar service - bring your favourite tipple and your drinks will be labelled and stored safely behind our bar by our team, ready to serve you whenever you need. A small selection of soft drinks and mixers will be provided. Please note **we do not sell alcohol at our venue.** 

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**Arrival between 7.30pm & 8.30pm - NO ENTRY AFTER 8.30PM** 

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Cross our threshold into *The Séance* by accepting your fate with an oracle card - a message from the spirit realm meant for you and one other person only - can you find the person who received the same divine guidance as you? 

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Throughout the night, use this card as a talking point, a way to connect not just to your spirit guides but to other members of *The Séance.* Only one other person received the same card as you, can you find who they are? Perhaps there is a reason for your connection on the night the veil is thinnest?

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As you’re directed upstairs to the second floor, you’ll be invited to first either change into your evening’s attire, check your coats and bags at the cloakroom or deposit your drinks at the bar. You’ll then be greeted with a crisp glass of fizz and invited to explore further on the third floor, in the Sub in the City Dungeon.   

This evening invites you to get curious about your darker desires, whether you’re a regular guest or a newbie into this world, let us take you under our wing and unleash your kinkiest self.   

There will be music all night, with different vibes on each floor, interactive areas and chillout spaces. 

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**This is not a sex party. No sexual activity is permitted and anyone doing so will be removed from the event without refund. Please read the event rules before booking.** 

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**Dress code: KINKY HORROR**   

It’s the kinkiest time of the year - Halloween, so effort is expected please! Kinkwear and fetish attire such as lingerie, leather, PVC, latex STRONGLY encouraged (we have space for you to change inside), costumes aligned with the theme *The Seance* STRONGLY encouraged - think spirits, demons, poltergeists, ghost brides, fortune tellers, sultry vampires. 

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Cocktail wear and smart attire are also welcome but we encourage a sprinkle of kink/horror where possible. 

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NOT THE VIBE: Cheesy halloween costumes, non-horror theme.  

Spaces are limited. Book early to avoid disappointment. No refunds. 

**EVENT RULES**  

The venue must remain discreet and not be shared with anyone who is not attending the event.

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No loitering or smoking outside in kinkwear/talking about kink or the event in front of the public.

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Respect the space and ask one of our monitors or hosts if you need any support with the equipment.

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This is a social event with a play element. Play does not mean sex – please respect these rules.

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Play is not a given or expected – respect other people’s boundaries.

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Consent is key.  

Please abide by PRICK – Personal Responsibility in Consensual Kink

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If you are deemed to be too intoxicated you will be asked to leave the event.

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If you are deemed to be under the influence of any illegal substances you will be asked to leave the event.

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Creepiness will not be tolerated. This is a safe space for newbies and seasoned kinksters alike to come together and mingle with the local community.

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If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to contact me at [sarah.subinthecity@gmail.com](mailto:sarah.subinthecity@gmail.com)

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Sub in the City  - The Séance: Halloween Dungeon Party 

Join Sub in the City as we summon some of the kinkiest spirts for a night you’ll never forget

The Séance: Halloween Dungeon Party 

Please provide your social media handle, Fetlife username, WAX or SpicyMatch Username for vetting purposes.

I have read the event rules and understand that failure to adhere to these rules may result in being asked to leave the event without refund.

Sub in the City is excited to bring you this monthly Kinky Tarot Circle for all those witchy kinksters out there!

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This monthly circle will be hosted by Sarah from Sub in the City and Molly from Bone & Mirror Tarot to bring together the two worlds of Tarot and Conscious Kink. 

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We'll be looking at specific cards in the Tarot through the lens of conscious kink, the shadow self and our erotic desires, to create a sacred space to explore ourselves and our desires in a safe container.

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Spots are limited to keep the circle intimate. All genders and experience levels welcome.

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**The Hanged Man and The Art of Surrender**

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For our first circle, we meet The Hanged Man. Suspended upside down, caught between earth and sky, The Hanged Man occupies one of the strangest positions in the tarot. He is bound, but he does not appear to struggle. He is motionless, but his stillness is not necessarily stagnation. With the world inverted around him, he asks what might become visible when our usual ways of seeing, doing and controlling are interrupted.

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The Hanged Man invites us into the uncomfortable territory of surrender. What happens when we loosen our grip? When we cannot, or choose not to, push forwards? What is the difference between surrender and defeat, between passivity and the conscious decision to yield? Can giving up control itself become an act of agency?

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Through the lens of kink, these questions become particularly charged. Surrender can be chosen, negotiated, embodied and deeply intentional. The Hanged Man offers us an archetype through which to become curious about our own relationship with control and release, resistance and trust, tension and yielding.

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**What to expect:**

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- **Arrival & Opening the Circle-** Grounding and arrival practice to establish the space and open the circle. 
- **Introducing the Kinky Tarot Circle Intentions-** A brief introduction to how we work with tarot: as an archetypal and symbolic language through which we can encounter different aspects of ourselves.
- **Meeting the Archetype-**Introduction to the tarot card at the centre of the session, exploring its imagery, symbolism, traditional meanings and wider archetypal themes.
- **Entering the Archetype-** A guided visualisation inviting participants to encounter the card experientially and imaginatively, followed by time for journaling, reflection and optional sharing.
- **Embodied Kink Exploration-** An embodied, kink-informed practice, exploring the central theme of the session through the body. 
- **Returning to the Card-** Participants return to the original tarot card after the embodied exploration. 
- **Integration & Closing Circle-** Journaling and optional group sharing to integrate the experience, followed by a closing practice to bring the circle to an intentional end.

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**Sunday 7th November 3-6pm Bournemouth.**

**Kinky Tarot Circle: The Hanged Man & The Art of Surrender**

Kinky Tarot Circle 

## **Cocktails & Kink: Kinkmas Market & Festive Social**

**Shoreditch, London 4pm-Midnight**

Join Sub in the City to welcome in the Kinkmas season with an afternoon/evening event featuring idependant kinky businesses selling their goods and services, interactive workshops, talks and demos and a cocktails & kink social to top off the event. 

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From handmade kinky toys to kinky products and services you won't want to miss, we've selected a variety of independent sellers to join us for a Kinkmas celebration in style, and this time, we’re back in LONDON BABY!

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From 4pm, you can come along and enjoy the kinky festivites, peruse the kinky market stalls and mingle with the local kink community. 

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We'll also have a variety of different spaces for you to be curious about kink, including our usual Dungeon area with Master Carlos, a rope jam area for Shibari lovers and much more.

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In these different spaces you'll be able to see demos and small workshops throughout the afternoon/evening to learn and experience a variety of kinky things!

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Come and go between 4 and 8pm. Last entry 8.30pm for evening social.

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As the evening draws in we will have some performances in true cocktails & kink style! 

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All tickets include: 

- **Access to all activities**
- **Access to market and social**
- **Festive surprises** 

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Kinkmas Market & Festive Social 

Join Sarah and Master Carlos from Sub in the City for an exclusive, intimate Christmas Dungeon Party!

We have a limited number of tickets for you to join our Christmas Dungeon Party where you can meet likeminded kinksters, socialise in our brand new Dungeon Studio, and explore some light kink play if you wish. Master Carlos will also be offering taster impact play sessions and Sarah will be around offering guidance and support to anyone who may want it.

Dungeon furniture and toys are available for you to use and you are also welcome to bring your own toys.

This event is not a sex party, therefore we do not allow sexual activities, however we do make this a safe space for  kink play (think sensory/sensation play/role play dynamics etc).

You will be welcomed into the space from 7.30pm with last entry at 8pm, and you’ll receive a welcome glass of fizz / soft drink and a tour/briefing on arrival.

The event is BYOB with a bar service, so our Dungeon Staff will label your drinks and serve you whenever you need a refill - simply go to the bar and request your drink! A small amount of soft drinks will be provided and snacks!

Please familiarise yourself with the event rules prior to booking

**EVENT RULES**

**The venue must remain discreet and not be shared with anyone who is not attending the event.**

**No loitering or smoking outside in kinkwear/talking about kink or the event.**

**Respect the space and ask one of our monitors or hosts if you need any support with the equipment.**

**This is a social event with a play element. Play does not mean sex - anyone caught will be removed.**

**Play is not a given or expected - respect other people and the House Doms**

**Consent is key.**

**The aftercare room is for chillout only. No play and no loitering for conversation or drinking.**

**Please abide by PRICK - Personal Responsibility in Consensual Kink**

**If you are deemed to be too intoxicated you will be asked to leave the event.**

**If you are deemed to be under the influence of any illegal substances you will be asked to leave the event.**

Consent is key, creepiness will not be tolerated. This is a safe space for newbies and seasoned kinksters alike to come together and mingle with the local community.

Spots are limited.

If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to contact me at [sarah.subinthecity@gmail.com](mailto:sarah.subinthecity@gmail.com)

Christmas Dungeon Social 

Gabriela Morris

I had a great time, everyone was friendly and welcoming and I feel like I've learned a lot about myself.  Thank you for answering all my questions,  beautiful people! ❤️ 

Chris Grasby

Fantastic events, attended as a new couple to BDSM, so supportive, inclusive and welcoming thanks Sarah and Master Carlos!! 

Join Sarah and Master Carlos from Sub in the City for an exclusive, intimate Christmas Dungeon Social 

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Do you agree to follow the rules of the event and understand that not following the rules will result in my removal from the event

Do you agree to follow the rules of the event and understand that not following the rules will result in your removal from the event?

### **An Exclusive New Year’s Eve at Sub in the City**

**Thursday 31st December 2026 | 7:30pm–1:30am**  
**Bournemouth**  
**Invitation Only**

Close the door on 2026.  
Step into the Sub in the City Studio.  
And move into 2027 with kinky confidence…

Join **Sarah & Master Carlos of Sub in the City** for our most decadent and exclusive dungeon party of the year — an intimate, **invitation-only** celebration for a sophisticated crowd of kinksters, explorers, couples, Doms, subs and curious souls.

Your evening begins at the **Sub in the City Studio**, where you’ll be welcomed with a glass of bubbles from our Dungeon Servers before stepping into an atmosphere of champagne, candlelight, temptation and anticipation.

This is NYE — Sub in the City style.

✨ **Expect an evening of:**

🥂 Bubbles flowing throughout the evening  
🍾 A selection of canapés, (served with a kinky surprise)  
🖤 Sophisticated mingling and socialising  
🔮 New Year’s rituals and intentions  
💌 The return of our infamous **Kinky Confessions Altar**  
🔥 Opportunities to explore your desires in our fully equipped dungeon  
👑 Master Carlos House Domming throughout the evening  
🥂 A kinky midnight countdown  
✨ And a very special spanking ritual to welcome 2027…

### **THE KINKY CONFESSIONS ALTAR**

Before the year comes to an end, you’ll be invited to leave something behind.

Share your **kinkiest experience of 2026** anonymously at our Kinky Confessions Altar — and then write down **one kinky wish for 2027**.

What are you leaving behind?

And what are you ready to explore next?

### **HOUSE DOMMING WITH MASTER CARLOS**

Master Carlos will be House Domming throughout the evening, creating opportunities for guests to dip their toes into the world of power exchange, play and exploration in a relaxed and welcoming environment.

If you’ve got something you’ve wanted to tick off your kinky bucket list, now is the chance to do so in 2026, or start 2027 with a bang…

**or should we say spank!** 

### **THE COUNTDOWN**

As midnight approaches, we’ll gather together to close the chapter on 2026.

Bubbles in hand.

Lights low.

Anticipation building.

And then, as the clock strikes midnight, we’ll welcome 2027 with a very special **New Year’s spanking ritual led by Sarah & Master Carlos.**

Because there are certainly worse ways to start a new year…

### **DRESS TO IMPRESS**

This is our most decadent night of the year, so leave the everyday at home.

**Men:** Black tie, tuxedos, suits  
**Women:** Lingerie, lace, fetish, elegant eveningwear with a kinky twist – think collars, harnesses, latex and leather accessories.  
**Everyone:** Sophisticated, seductive, mysterious and unapologetically kinky.

### **IMPORTANT**

**This is a private, invitation-only event.**

Our NYE Dungeon Party is intentionally intimate, and invitations are limited to create the atmosphere, community and level of privacy we want for the evening.

Come dressed to impress.

Come ready to mingle.

Come curious.

And come ready to leave 2026 behind in style…

**Our standard dungeon party rules apply. Please read the FAQ and rules below:**

**What is a Dungeon Party?**

This event is not a sex party, therefore we do not allow sexual activities, however we do make this a safe space for kink play (think sensory/sensation play/role play dynamics etc).

**Who can attend?**

Anyone who is interested in socialising with a friendly kink community is welcome to attend. It is a safe space for newbies and seasoned kinksters alike.

**What to expect?**

You will be welcomed into the space from 7.30pm with last entry **strictly** at 8pm.

You are invited to BYOB and our standard Dungeon BYOB bar will be in operation on the night. Remember, we **do not sell alcohol** at the venue. 

**EVENT RULES**

🩷 Doors open at 7.30pm and close at 8pm, no earlier, no later. Please do not arrive early or late as you will be turned away.

🩷 You will be given a dungeon tour/briefing on arrival.

🩷 Please be ready to state your name on the booking when arriving and do not let anyone who is not part of your booking pass into the venue.

🩷 We abide by PRICK at our events – Personal Responsibility in Consensual Kink

🩷 Please speak to Sarah, Master Carlos or any dungeon staff member identified with a pink LED armband should you need assistance with any equipment, housekeeping or to make a report.

🩷 Please drink responsibly

🩷 Drugs are not permitted

🩷 Please keep the venue location discreet to maintain the discretion of other guests and do not share the location of the event with non-ticket holders.

🩷 Do not loiter or smoke outside the venue in kinkwear, with drinks, or be loud/rowdy

🩷 If you need to go outside to smoke, please let one of our staff members know so they can keep an eye on the doorbell to let you back in.

🩷 Please be kind and mindful of language, touch, and interactions with other guests

🩷 Play is not a given or expected – respect other people’s boundaries and Master Carlos when Hose Domming

🩷 Consent is key

🩷 Please stick to the designated areas in the dungeon and do not cross into the cloakroom or  behind the bar. If you need something, please ask a member of staff.

🩷 Please be mindful when others are playing and do not be too loud, get in the way, or interrupt a scene.

🩷 The aftercare room is for aftercare or quiet time only. Please do not use this space to socialise.

🩷 Please do not loiter in the stairwell

🩷 Please wipe down equipment and toys after use with the antibac provided.

🩷 Please be quiet when leaving the premises at the end of the night.

If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to contact me at sarah.subinthecity@gmail.com

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If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to contact me at [sarah.subinthecity@gmail.com](mailto:sarah.subinthecity@gmail.com)

Join Sarah and Master Carlos to see in the New Year and say goodbye to 2026 in kinky style! 

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NYE Dungeon Party

Integrative Kink Coaching is suitable for individuals and couples, and can explore any specific kinky goals you may wish to work towards, such as enhancing your Dom/sub relationship or learning new skills, or it could be the first step in exploring and discovering your desires with someone to support you in understanding what to do with them. Working with our kinks can be incredibly healing. When we start to explore our kinks and assess our attitudes, values and beliefs around our kinks, it can open up the door to our shadow self, allowing us to get curious about all of the parts of ourselves that may need a little love and attention.  I am a big believer that connecting with our sexual self can improve all areas of our lives, and through the exploration of kink, we can look at many other aspects of our shadow self, including limiting beliefs, the inner child, confidence, shame, attachment, trauma, and much more to fully step into our most authentic selves.  Reasons you may wish to invest in Integrative Kink Therapy & Coaching: **Work on your D/s dynamic with a partner** **Relationship issues, conflicts or mismatch of desire** **Learning how to create, maintain and enjoy a fulfilling kinky lifestyle** **Kinky dating support**  **Learning about kink and discovering what you’re into**  **Working through limiting beliefs, blockages or trauma that may be hindering your kink experiences** **Learn a specific skill** **Deepen your understanding of your sexual self**  **Create more intimacy and connection in your relationships** All sessions are held online on Zoom in UK TIME, and are 60 minutes long for individual sessions and 90 minutes for couples sessions. 

Sub in the City  - 1 Hour Kink Coaching Session with Sarah

Integrative Kink Coaching is suitable for individuals and couples, and can explore any specific kinky goals you may wish to work towards, such as enhancing y...

1 Hour Kink Coaching Session with Sarah

By checking this box I agree to the terms of the coaching contract laid out by Sarah Salazar of Sub in the City (displayed on first booking page. A copy will also be sent to you in your confirmation email)

Integrative Kink Coaching is suitable for individuals and couples, and can explore any specific kinky goals you may wish to work towards, such as enhancing your Dom/sub relationship or learning new skills, or it could be the first step in exploring and discovering your desires with someone to support you in understanding what to do with them.

Working with our kinks can be incredibly healing. When we start to explore our kinks and assess our attitudes, values and beliefs around our kinks, it can open up the door to our shadow self, allowing us to get curious about all of the parts of ourselves that may need a little love and attention. 

I am a big believer that connecting with our sexual self can improve all areas of our lives, and through the exploration of kink, we can look at many other aspects of our shadow self, including limiting beliefs, the inner child, confidence, shame, attachment, trauma, and much more to fully step into our most authentic selves. 

Reasons you may wish to invest in Integrative Kink Therapy & Coaching:

**Work on your D/s dynamic with a partner**

**Relationship issues, conflicts or mismatch of desire**

**Learning how to create, maintain and enjoy a fulfilling kinky lifestyle**

**Kinky dating support** 

**Learning about kink and discovering what you’re into** 

**Working through limiting beliefs, blockages or trauma that may be hindering your kink experiences**

**Learn a specific skill**

**Deepen your understanding of your sexual self** 

**Create more intimacy and connection in your relationships**

All sessions are held online on Zoom and are 60 minutes long for individual sessions and 90 minutes for couples sessions. 

A 90-minute personalised online coaching session for couples looking to dive deeper into their kinky desires

90 Minute Couples Kink Coaching Session with Sarah

Do you want to learn a new kinky skill, or get some support or guidance on how to take things to the next level? Then a private skills session is perfect for you.

Sessions are designed for individuals, couples or small groups, who wish to have personalised support and guidance on how to implement new practical skills into their kinky lifestyle, with Kinky Coach Sarah and Pro Dom, Master Carlos. This could include but is not limited to things such as:

- **Impact Play Skills**
- **Sensory Play Skills**
- **Temperature Play Skills**
- **Dominance & Submission**
- **Scene creation**
- **Creating your kinky lifestyle**
- **Rules & Rituals**
- **Discipline & Punishment**
- **Dirty talk**
- **Aftercare**
- **& more**

Sessions are tailored to your individual needs and desires. Please note these coaching sessions are educational and exploratory in nature and are not an adult sexual service.

All sessions are held in Bournemouth in the fully-equipped Sub in the City BDSM Studio space (Bournemouth, BH1). Full address provided upon booking.

Sub in the City  - Private workshop/coaching in Dungeon 

Do you want to learn a new kinky skill, or get some support or guidance on how to take things to the next level? Then a private skills session is perfect for...