Join Sarah and Master Carlos from Sub in the City for a monthly Dungeon Party in the Sub in the City Studio in Bournemouth.

We have a limited number of tickets for you to join our Dungeon Party where you can meet likeminded kinksters, socialise in our brand new Dungeon Studio, and explore some light kink play if you wish. Master Carlos will also be offering taster impact play sessions and Sarah will be around offering guidance and support to anyone who may want it.

Dungeon furniture and toys are available for you to use and you are also welcome to bring your own toys.

**What is a Dungeon Party?**

This event is not a full sex party, therefore we do not allow sexual activities, however we do make this a safe space for kink play (think sensory/sensation play/role play dynamics etc).

**Who can attend?** 

Anyone who is interested in socialising with the local kink community is welcome to attend. It is a safe space for newbies and seasoned kinksters alike.

**What to expect?**

You will be welcomed into the space from 7.30pm with last entry at 8pm, and you’ll receive a welcome glass of fizz / soft drink and a tour/briefing on arrival.

The event is BYOB with a bar service, so our House Subs will label your drinks and serve you whenever you need a refill - simply go to the bar and request your drink! A small amount of soft drinks will be provided and snacks!

Please familiarise yourself with the event rules prior to booking

**EVENT RULES**

**The venue must remain discreet and not be shared with anyone who is not attending the event.**

**No loitering or smoking outside in kinkwear/talking about kink or the event in front of the public.**

**Respect the space and ask one of our monitors or hosts if you need any support with the equipment.**

**This is a social event with a play element. Play does not mean sex - please respect these rules.**

**Play is not a given or expected - respect other people’s boundaries.**

**Consent is key.**

**Please abide by PRICK - Personal Responsibility in Consensual Kink**

**If you are deemed to be too intoxicated you will be asked to leave the event.**

**If you are deemed to be under the influence of any illegal substances you will be asked to leave the event.**

Consent is key, creepiness will not be tolerated. This is a safe space for newbies and seasoned kinksters alike to come together and mingle with the local community.

Spots are limited.

If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to contact me at [sarah.subinthecity@gmail.com](mailto:sarah.subinthecity@gmail.com)

Dungeon Party 

Michael  Lockyer

A great evening with fabulous people. 👍

Join Sarah and Master Carlos from Sub in the City for a monthly Dungeon Party in the Sub in the City Studio in Bournemouth.

Please provide your Fetlife/ Social media handle or link for vetting purposes 

I have read the event rules and understand that failure to adhere to these rules will result in being asked to leave the event without refund.

**Sunday 21st June- 3-6.30pm**  

Join Sub in the City for an afternoon of rope exploration with our guest facilitator Talulah Teal.

***Talulah Teal fell down the shibari rabbit hole as soon as she joined the kink scene, and this avid bunny has seen no reason to resurface since! She identifies as a rope bottom and self-tier, and has trained with a variety of shibari instructors in the UK and Europe. Talulah also has a background in dance and circus arts, and brings principles of movement and body awareness to her rope teaching and practice.***

Whether you’re brand new to rope or have been exploring for a while, this workshop is designed to introduce you to some basic knots and rope techniques that are a simple yet effective way to uplevel your play sessions.

In this workshop, we will go beyond the technical, to understand how you can use rope intentionally to set the mood and the tone for your power dynamic, offering inspiration for sensation play, body handling, ritual and intentional presence when dropping into your Dom/sub energy.

We recommend attending this workshop with a partner. You are welcome to book a solo ticket, however please be advised this does not guarantee you a partner to tie with. However our team and house models are also available to assist you. 

We’ll be covering:

- **Grounding and presence**
- **The basics of safety in rope**
- **Basic tying techniques**
- **Structuring your scenes with intention**
- **Guided exploration time**
- **Aftercare and debrief**

This workshop is 3.5 hours and will include a short break in the middle with an optional extra half hour for practice until 7pm. There will be drinks and snacks provided on the day.

Please bring with you:

- **Comfy, breathable clothing**
- **Water bottle**
- **Rope (if you have it)**

We will have a limited number of ropes on the day so if you can bring your own rope, please do so.

This event will be held in the Sub in the City studio in Central Bournemouth - BH1. Full address confirmed upon booking.   

If you have any questions prior to booking, contact me at [sarah.subinthecity@gmail.com](mailto:sarah.subinthecity@gmail.com)

Rope Scenes for D/s Dynamics 

Elisha Swift 

Absolutely wonderful session. Jennifer has a bubbly, playful personality that kept me engaged and entertained throughout. I attended with my friend who I’ve dabbled in rope play with in the past and it bought a deeper level of intimacy to our dynamic, helped me to understand my body and to understand the importance of safety, boundaries and communication, whether that’s verbal or non verbal. Thoroughly enjoyed the session. I mentioned this at the time but I’ll say again, I’m almost never ‘calm’, my exterior is but my mind is always overthinking, I was so calm, present and at peace in this session so kudos to ya’ll. the whole weekend filled my soul with love and connection. 

For aspiring or exploring Doms and subs who would like to learn how to use rope in their dynamic to create exciting and intentional scenes for play. 

**Sunday 7th June @ 3pm-5pm Bournemouth, BH1**

**Kink and Sketch: Kinky Life Drawing**

Join us for an afternoon of arts and kink in this brand new life drawing workshop.

Kink and Sketch is our inaugural artistic workshop, where we explore the sensuality of the human body through an artistic lens. In this intimate life drawing session, we will share some basic illustration techniques that will allow you to capture the enticing poses of our life models, and maybe open the doors for your own personal collection of kinky art!

Be you a seasoned artist wanting to share ideas and stretch your life drawing skills, or a beginner wanting to dip your toes into a new world of creativity, or simply just want to have a bit of artsy fun, we would love to see you there.

Join us and learn with our guest facilitator [@ChaoticHarmony89](https://fetlife.com/ChaoticHarmony89) how you too can make those memorable moments into provoking pieces of art.

In this first session, we’ll be working with the gorgeous self suspension rope slut [Talulah Teal](https://fetlife.com/Talulah_Teal) as our muse! 

As these sessions evolve, we’ll be exploring different media and models for a variety of artistic kinky exploration. 

**About @ChaoticHarmony89**

*I’m a self-taught artist who has studied concept art and illustration for over 25 years. I worked with small indie developers, South American game and animation studios, tattoo artists, and self-publishing authors.*

*My main focus is on fantasy art with a scientific/realistic approach, but I also love playing around with a more underground comic book style.*

*I work mainly with pencil, ink and paper, but I have experience with most of the traditional materials, as well as most of the industry standard illustration software.*

**This workshop will take place in the Sub in the City Studio in Bournemouth, BH1. Full address confirmed upon booking.**

Sub in the City  - Kink & Sketch: Kinky Life Drawing Class

Kink & Sketch: Kinky Life Drawing Class

Do you want to explore and understand what it means to be a Dominant? Do you want to feel confident in leading your partner in the bedroom? Whether you’re in a relationship or single, you’re completely new to BDSM or have experimented with Dominance but don’t seem to be getting the results you desire, this workshop is for you!

I am welcoming Dominants/switches of all genders and orientations to *The Art of Domination*, where I’ll be talking you through some of the basics of Domination, how it works, and how to find and create a fulfilling D/s dynamic with a partner whose kinks align with yours. Topics we’ll cover include:

  


- **What is a Dom?**
- **Qualities of a good Dominant**
- **Blocks to Domination & confidence building** 
- **Stepping into your masculine energy**
- **What type of Dominant are you?**
- **Your Dominant responsibilities**  
- **Limits, safewords & aftercare**
- **Finding the right submissive**
- **Training your submissive** 
- **Taking on board feedback** 

This workshop will encourage you to really think about your desires and reflect on how to adapt your Dominant style to get the most out of your BDSM experiences. 

Please note this online event is a seminar-style workshop and no play/nudity is involved. There will be exercises given during class/as homework but level of participation is down to what each individual feels safe and comfortable with. 

  


Sub in the City  - Domination 101

Do you want to explore and understand what it means to be a Dominant? Do you want to feel confident in leading your partner in the bedroom? Whether you’re in...

Domination 101

Join Sarah and Master Carlos from Sub in the City for a monthly Dungeon Party in the Sub in the City Studio in Bournemouth.

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This time we’re playing under the neon lights in this UV Party - come dressed in neon delights or bright whites so you can glow all night long.

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**7.30pm- 12.30am**

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We have a limited number of tickets for you to join our Dungeon Party where you can meet likeminded kinksters, socialise in our brand new Dungeon Studio, and explore some light kink play if you wish. Master Carlos will also be offering taster impact play sessions and Sarah will be around offering guidance and support to anyone who may want it.

Dungeon furniture and toys are available for you to use and you are also welcome to bring your own toys.

**What is a Dungeon Party?**

This event is not a full sex party, therefore we do not allow sexual activities, however we do make this a safe space for kink play (think sensory/sensation play/role play dynamics etc).

**Who can attend?** 

Anyone who is interested in socialising with the local kink community is welcome to attend. It is a safe space for newbies and seasoned kinksters alike.

**What to expect?**

You will be welcomed into the space from 7.30pm with last entry at 8pm, and you’ll receive a welcome glass of fizz / soft drink and a tour/briefing on arrival.

The event is BYOB with a bar service, so our House Subs will label your drinks and serve you whenever you need a refill - simply go to the bar and request your drink! A small amount of soft drinks will be provided and snacks!

Please familiarise yourself with the event rules prior to booking

**EVENT RULES**

**The venue must remain discreet and not be shared with anyone who is not attending the event.**

**No loitering or smoking outside in kinkwear/talking about kink or the event in front of the public.**

**Respect the space and ask one of our monitors or hosts if you need any support with the equipment.**

**This is a social event with a play element. Play does not mean sex - please respect these rules.**

**Play is not a given or expected - respect other people’s boundaries.**

**Consent is key.**

**Please abide by PRICK - Personal Responsibility in Consensual Kink**

**If you are deemed to be too intoxicated you will be asked to leave the event.**

**If you are deemed to be under the influence of any illegal substances you will be asked to leave the event.**

Consent is key, creepiness will not be tolerated. This is a safe space for newbies and seasoned kinksters alike to come together and mingle with the local community.

Spots are limited.

If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to contact me at [sarah.subinthecity@gmail.com](mailto:sarah.subinthecity@gmail.com)

Sub in the City  - UV Dungeon Party 

Join Sarah and Master Carlos from Sub in the City for a monthly Dungeon Party in the Sub in the City Studio in Bournemouth.

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This time we’re playing ...

UV Dungeon Party 

Please provide your social media/WAX/Fetlife profile for vetting purposes

BDSM goes way beyond a spank, a choke and a hair pull, so forget the fluffy handcuffs because in this workshop, we will go beyond the surface to explore the powerful tools which are rules and rituals.

Wherever you are in your kink journey, rules and rituals can provide a new and exciting way to incorporate power play into your kinky relationship or dynamic. In this workshop, you will discover the psychological side of BDSM & Kink, and how you can incorporate it into your play sessions to deepen your connection and go beyond bondage.

We will cover:

- The roles of Dominant & submissive
-  What are rules & rituals
-  Why use them?
-  Negotiation and communication
-  Your kinky love language
- How to include rules & rituals into your play/lifestyle

Singles, couples and more welcome. All you need is yourself and an open mind.

Please note this is a seminar-style workshop and no play/nudity is involved. There will be exercises given during class/as homework but level of participation is down to what each individual feels safe and comfortable with. 

For information on my other workshops, keep an eye on my [events page.](http://subinthecity.com/events/)

Sub in the City  - Beyond Bondage: Exploring Rules & Rituals for Power Dynamics

Beyond Bondage: Exploring Rules & Rituals for Power Dynamics

**SENSUAL UV WAX PLAY WORKSHOP**

*Join Sub in the City for an intimate, colourful evening of wax play exploration and turn your bodies into glow in the dark masterpieces. Guided by Integrative Kink Therapist Sarah Salazar (Sub in the City) and our Pro Dom & House sub, you'll discover the sensual art of wax play, learning the skills and techniques to play with temperature safely and skillfully.*

Enter into our decadent space, be inspired by a gorgeous wax play performance from our house Dom & sub, then you’ll be guided by Sarah through the basics of wax play, a group taster activity and then a freestyle portion of the class where you can either work in pairs, groups or choose to have a guided experience by one of the Sub in the City team. 

After the workshop comes to a close, we'll enjoy a social where you can mix and mingle. 

**Who can attend:**

This workshop is open to **duos and singles.** If you are attending with a friend who you are happy to partner with, please select a duo ticket.

Being partnered in this class is **not** a requirement, as we have the Sub in the City facilitators there to guide you through your experience should you not have a partner, but please note if you attend solo, your practical experience with other attendees is **not guaranteed and should never be expected as standard**. This will depend on personal preference on the night and consent and etiquette will be strictly enforced.

Evening schedule:

**7.30 - 8pm: Arrival & welcome drink**

**8pm: Wax Play demo & workshop** 

**8.45pm: Practical exploration**

**9.30: Aftercare and de- briefing and social time (stay for a social wind down if you would like)**

This is going to be a fun and playful evening to learn the art of wax play, how to incorporate it into your play for a sensual, erotic and kinky experience. You’ll have the opportunity to learn how to give and receive the wax and discover what sensations you enjoy the most.

Your Experience includes:

**• Expert-led masterclass with Sarah, Master Carlos and the team**

 **• Intimate live artistic demonstration**

**• Premium soy wax candles provided**

**• Personalized guidance throughout your journey**

**• Social time** 

Other important information:

**Full venue address confirmed nearer the time and to ticket holders only (BH1)** 

**We recommend wearing comfortable clothing for this workshop as you will be spending time on the floor, but you can bring a change of clothes for the social.**

**Please bring with you a yoga mat/towel that you are comfortable with getting messy (wax is easily cleaned off).**

**The level of skin you wish to show is down to your level of comfortability.**

If you have any questions prior to booking, contact me at [sarah.subinthecity@gmail.com](mailto:sarah.subinthecity@gmail.com)

Join Sub in the City for an intimate, colourful evening of wax play exploration and turn your bodies into glow in the dark masterpieces

Sensual UV Wax Play Experience 

Ever feel like you don’t have the time to properly get into your Dom/sub dynamic? Perhaps you keep talking about starting but never get around to it? Does it currently feel like it will always be a fantasy but never a reality?

  


How about an entire 2 days dedicated to building your ideal D/s Dynamic? Join us at the Sub in the City Studio for this 2-day intensive as we explore experiential workshops dedicated to supporting you in building a power exchange that really works for you. 

  


This weekend will be jam packed full of educational and experiential classes and workshops for you to really step into your Dom/subspace and co-create something unique to you. 

  


This weekend is for couples or Dom/sub duos who are consciously exploring power exchange dynamics and wish to deepen their exploration. We welcome all experience levels, whether you’re just dipping your toes into the world of kink for the first time, or you’ve been exploring for a while, this weekend is designed to help you connect, communicate, explore and play in a fully immersive environment without the outside noise of every day life. 

  


**What to expect**

  


**Saturday**

  


We will kick off the weekend on Saturday morning with an opening cacao ceremony - our approach to kink is a conscious one, and this will allow us to set the scene and expectations for what will be an immersive weekend. 

  


We’ll then dive into understanding what *authentic* Dominance and submission looks like to you - not what you think it *should be*, not what you see in the movies or porn, but what *feels good* and *real* for you. This is also the time to explore what your biggest challenges are, where there might be any lingering resistance, and how to feel confident in communicating your desires to each other so you can build something that sets your souls on fire!

  


Next, we lay the foundations for the fun part - building your ultimate kinky scene! Whether you already have exciting playtime, or you’re stuck for inspiration, we’ll show you how to think outside the box when it comes to planning spicy scenes for play, and then guide you to create your own! 

  


Once you’re feeling warmed up, we’ll dive into some practical skills sessions, exploring Impact and Sensation Play. Whatever sensations you enjoy, this session is about understanding how to play with pain and pleasure in an erotic way that feels delicious for both of you. Watch a detailed live demo with Master Carlos and get hands-on guidance with a variety of tools that will invite you to get out of your head and into your body and really surrender. 

  


Saturday night you’ll be welcomed back to the Dungeon for our evening dungeon party where you can mix and mingle with other community members. Have a drink and a chat, and have the freedom to explore the dungeon further and practice what you’ve learnt that day. This evening event is a social and kink play only, it is not a sex party. 

  


**Sunday**

  


On Sunday, we dive into even more workshops to continue to build upon your dynamic, starting with creating rules, rituals and structure that are most suited to your style of Dominance and submission. Whether you see your dynamic as something you do in the bedroom only, or you’re looking to live it 24/7, this workshop will help you map out structure that feels realistic to your lifestyle and builds consistency. 

We’ll then give you some extra practical skills as our resident rope facilitator Talulah Teal will show you how you can use rope bondage to enhance your D/s scenes. You’ll be shown how to tie safely and in a way that explores rope as a sensation tool as much as a restraint tool. 

  


Adding this skill to your repertoire will give you a variety of different options to explore when it comes to building exciting BDSM Scenes. You’ll have some free time to explore these new skills and layer in everything else you’ve learnt too. 

  


As the weekend begins to draw to a close, we’ll start to wind down with an Aftercare workshop and session with our resident facilitator Alice Nan - we’ll explore what aftercare looks like and means to you, so you can continue to build your dynamic in a safe and nourishing way. 

  


We’ll end with a closing circle and Q&A to set you up for success when you go home. 

  


This weekend is limited to a maximum of 10 couples to ensure you get dedicated time and support.

  


**Full weekend itinerary (STC)**

  


**Saturday**

  


10-10.30: Opening Cacao circle 

  


10.30am-11.45pm: Embodying authentic Dominance & Submission

  


12pm-1.30: BDSM Scene Building

  


1.30pm-3pm: Break for lunch/free time 

 

3-4.30pm: Impact and Sensation Play 

  


4.30-7.30: Break for dinner and change for party

  


8pm-12.30am - SITC Dungeon Party/Social 

  


**Sunday**

  


11-11.30: Tea, coffee and party debrief (optional)

  


11.30am - 12.45pm: Creating Rules, Rituals and Structure for your dynamic 

  


1pm-2.30pm: An Introduction to Rope with Talulah Teal (Part 1)

  


2.30pm-3.15pm: Break for lunch/Free time 

  


3.15-4pm: An Introduction to Rope Scenes for D/s Dynamics with Talulah Teal (Part 2)

  


4pm-5pmThe Ritual of Aftercare with Alice Nan 

  


5pm-6pm: Q&A and Closing Circle 

  


Sub in the City  - Deepen Your Dynamic 

Ever feel like you don’t have the time to properly get into your Dom/sub dynamic? Perhaps you keep talking about starting but never get around to it? Does it...

Deepen Your Dynamic 

Integrative Kink Coaching is suitable for individuals and couples, and can explore any specific kinky goals you may wish to work towards, such as enhancing your Dom/sub relationship or learning new skills, or it could be the first step in exploring and discovering your desires with someone to support you in understanding what to do with them. Working with our kinks can be incredibly healing. When we start to explore our kinks and assess our attitudes, values and beliefs around our kinks, it can open up the door to our shadow self, allowing us to get curious about all of the parts of ourselves that may need a little love and attention.  I am a big believer that connecting with our sexual self can improve all areas of our lives, and through the exploration of kink, we can look at many other aspects of our shadow self, including limiting beliefs, the inner child, confidence, shame, attachment, trauma, and much more to fully step into our most authentic selves.  Reasons you may wish to invest in Integrative Kink Therapy & Coaching: **Work on your D/s dynamic with a partner** **Relationship issues, conflicts or mismatch of desire** **Learning how to create, maintain and enjoy a fulfilling kinky lifestyle** **Kinky dating support**  **Learning about kink and discovering what you’re into**  **Working through limiting beliefs, blockages or trauma that may be hindering your kink experiences** **Learn a specific skill** **Deepen your understanding of your sexual self**  **Create more intimacy and connection in your relationships** All sessions are held online on Zoom in UK TIME, and are 60 minutes long for individual sessions and 90 minutes for couples sessions. 

Sub in the City  - 1 Hour Kink Coaching Session with Sarah

Integrative Kink Coaching is suitable for individuals and couples, and can explore any specific kinky goals you may wish to work towards, such as enhancing y...

1 Hour Kink Coaching Session with Sarah

By checking this box I agree to the terms of the coaching contract laid out by Sarah Salazar of Sub in the City (displayed on first booking page. A copy will also be sent to you in your confirmation email)

Integrative Kink Coaching is suitable for individuals and couples, and can explore any specific kinky goals you may wish to work towards, such as enhancing your Dom/sub relationship or learning new skills, or it could be the first step in exploring and discovering your desires with someone to support you in understanding what to do with them.

Working with our kinks can be incredibly healing. When we start to explore our kinks and assess our attitudes, values and beliefs around our kinks, it can open up the door to our shadow self, allowing us to get curious about all of the parts of ourselves that may need a little love and attention. 

I am a big believer that connecting with our sexual self can improve all areas of our lives, and through the exploration of kink, we can look at many other aspects of our shadow self, including limiting beliefs, the inner child, confidence, shame, attachment, trauma, and much more to fully step into our most authentic selves. 

Reasons you may wish to invest in Integrative Kink Therapy & Coaching:

**Work on your D/s dynamic with a partner**

**Relationship issues, conflicts or mismatch of desire**

**Learning how to create, maintain and enjoy a fulfilling kinky lifestyle**

**Kinky dating support** 

**Learning about kink and discovering what you’re into** 

**Working through limiting beliefs, blockages or trauma that may be hindering your kink experiences**

**Learn a specific skill**

**Deepen your understanding of your sexual self** 

**Create more intimacy and connection in your relationships**

All sessions are held online on Zoom and are 60 minutes long for individual sessions and 90 minutes for couples sessions. 

A 90-minute personalised online coaching session for couples looking to dive deeper into their kinky desires

90 Minute Couples Kink Coaching Session with Sarah

Do you want to learn a new kinky skill, or get some support or guidance on how to take things to the next level? Then a private skills session is perfect for you.

Sessions are designed for individuals, couples or small groups, who wish to have personalised support and guidance on how to implement new practical skills into their kinky lifestyle, with Kinky Coach Sarah and Pro Dom, Master Carlos. This could include but is not limited to things such as:

- **Impact Play Skills**
- **Sensory Play Skills**
- **Temperature Play Skills**
- **Dominance & Submission**
- **Scene creation**
- **Creating your kinky lifestyle**
- **Rules & Rituals**
- **Discipline & Punishment**
- **Dirty talk**
- **Aftercare**
- **& more**

Sessions are tailored to your individual needs and desires. Please note these coaching sessions are educational and exploratory in nature and are not an adult sexual service.

All sessions are held in Bournemouth in the fully-equipped Sub in the City BDSM Studio space (Bournemouth, BH1). Full address provided upon booking.

Sub in the City  - Private workshop/coaching in Dungeon 

Do you want to learn a new kinky skill, or get some support or guidance on how to take things to the next level? Then a private skills session is perfect for...

Private workshop/coaching in Dungeon 

An Introduction to Submission

Konrad Radny

A pleasant workshop thoughtfully created, Sarah presented it at a comfortable pace and with good quality audio & video, I left with confidence and excitement - thank you!

May Dungeon Party 

Baban Bindra

Nicholas Ruesink-Brown

Clear and informative. Good pace and duration for the content. Speaker addressed questions authoritatively.

Dungeon Party: My Bloody Valentine 

Caelin Toms

Safe, consensual and respectful were key at this event - and it delivered. A great variety of personalities, tastes and equipment to test and learn from, with fantastic service and demos from the organisers and their House Subs. Strong recommend no matter your experience within the community.

Lee Podesta

Such a great night filled with wonderful people and performances! Were Lucky to have these parties down here 

Christmas Dungeon Social 

Chris Grasby

Fantastic events, attended as a new couple to BDSM, so supportive, inclusive and welcoming thanks Sarah and Master Carlos!! 

Gabriela Morris

I had a great time, everyone was friendly and welcoming and I feel like I've learned a lot about myself.  Thank you for answering all my questions,  beautiful people! ❤️ 

Integrative Therapist, Coach & Educator offering private sessions, workshops, retreats and events. 

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